Tuesday, June 15, 2010
What Do You Do When A Relationship Does Not Work?
How do you get over something that you thought was divinely ordained? When you just felt something in your heart was suppossed to be? And was for thee betterment of yourself? Well if you know the answer let me know, In the mean time #juspray
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Black Men and White Women
Please read the link at the bottom to hear Slum Thug's opinions on Black Women and why he believes that Black Men date White Women, as I make reference to his views...Now Let's Get 2 It!
I am a Black Woman! I cannot give a perspective from any other than...
"Black Women are Gold Diggers- In it to win it, all about the benjamins," that's a cry I hear very often from our male counterparts. As I say to them, How did you meet? What were your common interest that led you all to pursue a relationship. Because if you meet her at a club with a $600.00 outfit on then the sampling pool of women to choose from may be a tad bit swayed. Then the young man in the Purple Label Sweater and Khakis, behind his Valentino eye wear declares, "I met her at a volunteer function through my job. Now she acts as if she can't get back and forth to work without me filling up gas in her car. I mean come on." So if you wifed a White Woman, provided her food, shelter, clothing and all her other needs for a period of time, she too would not become dependent on you? But Black Women take the slack being said to act differently or lower class like, in the situation than White Women. From our perspective, maybe just maybe, we have been schooled to equate financial support with responsibilities of a man. I mean when our counterparts date/marry the White Women, they assume financial responsibility (DS). Perhaps there has never been any financial or spiritual support from a man of any role in our lives? Can you fault us to the point of casting us off as a whole, breaking our chances to create productive families and nuture well balanced minds in our little Black babies? Remember, I am speaking on misunderstood, tryna keep it together, possibly issue havin, pretty much normal women. Because the White race of Women have thier Anna Nicole's, Elin Nordegren's(I bust the windows out your car, I did it cause you broke my heart), Kobe's Colorado girl and the list goes on.
" Their standards are too high. They have to understand that Successful Black Men are extinct. We're important."- Slim Thug
OOOoooooKKKKKkkkk....So now we're not good enough for the important Black Man! Wow, I guess we (as a whole remember because no Black or Wite woman is different from each other in general :) such second class citizens that we don't deserve the opportunity to date/love/marry the important Black Men. (Since we're generalizing) Black men on ly fall into these categories: 1. Dead/Jail 3. Mentally/Physically/Emotionally Handicapped 4. Went to College/Military 5. Pursued life of alcohol/drugs hanging on floating through life. And your telling me that we don't DESERVE the "important" ones!
"Black women argue all the time, and they stay mad at something!" Wellll.......You may have a point. I do agree that most of the Black Women in relationships that I have experienced do argue and yell at a higher rate than the White Women in relationships that I have experienced. For numerous reasons; 1. Condition of personal life due to the structure of her surroundings. Perhaps single, a parent, low education, no family structure (dead, jail, jus not around), little education, rape/physical abuse, mental abuse, physical health due to improper medical coverage or knowledge or lack of funds to nourish self properly, (Isn't healthy food expensive! OMGsh!)While about 93% of the dated/married White Women population does not suffer from any or very few of these issues in different contexts. But then again, the point is that Black Women are less supportive but in reality how supportive can ANY Women be when their significant other verbally and action wise instills in them that they are worthless and inferior women than the ones they live amongst. How much faith could you have in an institution that descredits your very being and believes to their core that you will never amount to much. Might you be angry too? A little harder to pacify? #imjussayin
BOTTOM LINE: Black Men as well as any man has his individual right to choose who he dates. My goal as a WOMAN, MOTHER and servant of the Most High is to evaluate my weaknesses and turn them into strengths. I am NOT A Black Woman, that is a physical characteric. I. Am. African-American, much as a Nigga ain't a Nigger. I say African-American Women, who wants a man that doesn't want them? Black and White! Get your personal game to its best and you will meet the WHATEVA COLRED MAN that is for you. **Royally Signing Off**
I am a Black Woman! I cannot give a perspective from any other than...
"Black Women are Gold Diggers- In it to win it, all about the benjamins," that's a cry I hear very often from our male counterparts. As I say to them, How did you meet? What were your common interest that led you all to pursue a relationship. Because if you meet her at a club with a $600.00 outfit on then the sampling pool of women to choose from may be a tad bit swayed. Then the young man in the Purple Label Sweater and Khakis, behind his Valentino eye wear declares, "I met her at a volunteer function through my job. Now she acts as if she can't get back and forth to work without me filling up gas in her car. I mean come on." So if you wifed a White Woman, provided her food, shelter, clothing and all her other needs for a period of time, she too would not become dependent on you? But Black Women take the slack being said to act differently or lower class like, in the situation than White Women. From our perspective, maybe just maybe, we have been schooled to equate financial support with responsibilities of a man. I mean when our counterparts date/marry the White Women, they assume financial responsibility (DS). Perhaps there has never been any financial or spiritual support from a man of any role in our lives? Can you fault us to the point of casting us off as a whole, breaking our chances to create productive families and nuture well balanced minds in our little Black babies? Remember, I am speaking on misunderstood, tryna keep it together, possibly issue havin, pretty much normal women. Because the White race of Women have thier Anna Nicole's, Elin Nordegren's(I bust the windows out your car, I did it cause you broke my heart), Kobe's Colorado girl and the list goes on.
" Their standards are too high. They have to understand that Successful Black Men are extinct. We're important."- Slim Thug
OOOoooooKKKKKkkkk....So now we're not good enough for the important Black Man! Wow, I guess we (as a whole remember because no Black or Wite woman is different from each other in general :) such second class citizens that we don't deserve the opportunity to date/love/marry the important Black Men. (Since we're generalizing) Black men on ly fall into these categories: 1. Dead/Jail 3. Mentally/Physically/Emotionally Handicapped 4. Went to College/Military 5. Pursued life of alcohol/drugs hanging on floating through life. And your telling me that we don't DESERVE the "important" ones!
"Black women argue all the time, and they stay mad at something!" Wellll.......You may have a point. I do agree that most of the Black Women in relationships that I have experienced do argue and yell at a higher rate than the White Women in relationships that I have experienced. For numerous reasons; 1. Condition of personal life due to the structure of her surroundings. Perhaps single, a parent, low education, no family structure (dead, jail, jus not around), little education, rape/physical abuse, mental abuse, physical health due to improper medical coverage or knowledge or lack of funds to nourish self properly, (Isn't healthy food expensive! OMGsh!)While about 93% of the dated/married White Women population does not suffer from any or very few of these issues in different contexts. But then again, the point is that Black Women are less supportive but in reality how supportive can ANY Women be when their significant other verbally and action wise instills in them that they are worthless and inferior women than the ones they live amongst. How much faith could you have in an institution that descredits your very being and believes to their core that you will never amount to much. Might you be angry too? A little harder to pacify? #imjussayin
BOTTOM LINE: Black Men as well as any man has his individual right to choose who he dates. My goal as a WOMAN, MOTHER and servant of the Most High is to evaluate my weaknesses and turn them into strengths. I am NOT A Black Woman, that is a physical characteric. I. Am. African-American, much as a Nigga ain't a Nigger. I say African-American Women, who wants a man that doesn't want them? Black and White! Get your personal game to its best and you will meet the WHATEVA COLRED MAN that is for you. **Royally Signing Off**
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